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2017 has started off and it is the time for writing up your new year resolutions ... and NO, I am NOT going to bore you with advice and other perspective but just going to give you a succinct list of possible things you can think about as you make your way through 2017 ....hope this helps ...
Surround yourself with people you truly enjoy being in the company of and stop being judgemental (including yourself), choose being happy over being right
Say ‘thank you’, Smile more and be kind
Be comfortable with silence and listen to understand, not to respond or retort
Prioritize yourself and procrastinate only when absolutely essential
Be Mindful - Feel your breath
Hope you can think through and make these subtle adjustments ... Have a good 2017
Stay blessed ...

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